Archives for March 2013

about the time I rearranged the bedroom.

A few weeks ago, when Zan was off skiing one Saturday, I decided to take a little time to rearrange the bedroom. I was at the end of my rope with winter and just looking for a change. I always decide to do these sorts of things on a last minute basis. One minute I’m propped in front of my computer waiting for my coffee to finish brewing, and the next, BAM! I’ve gone completely mad and everything is my room is being strewn about.

Why I did this by myself without Zan around to help me I will never know, but it went something like this:

Take all of the drawers out of the dresser, stack them in the dining room.

Collect junk from dresser into a paper bag.

Take the mattress off the bed, lean it up in the kitchen.

Throw all the bedding to the wayside.

Use my super strength to move everything to the opposite side of where it was before.

Rearrange the rug.

Bring in a comfy chair from the study.

Bring back in the dresser drawers.

Put the mattress back on the bed and the bedding all back together.

Admire my handy work.

Take pictures.

Send to Zanner.

Post to instagram.

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Proud of myself doesn’t even come close to how I felt. I was elated with our new set-up and my new found love of home handywork. Zan really liked the new change, too. Gave me a pat on the back, told me he was impressed. I must have done something wrong in the moving process though, because as soon as Zan got into the bed it broke and the entire thing came crashing to the floor.

Whoops.

There’s a slight chance I was the cause of that.

{I was most definitely the cause of that.}

It was one of those situations where all you can really do is laugh through the tears. And once you get over the tragedy of breaking your bed, an extended camp-out with your mattress on the ground is actually an okay adventure in the interim.

goal four: handwritten letters + stay in touch with friends

You probably thought I forgot about this resolution list, didn’t you.

Well you were right because I DID.

And then at lunch today I was like WHAT should I blog about next? At which point this little list came creeping back to me, along with some stress because of so much I still want/need to do.

And I know it’s only March, but still.

Goal #4 is to write more handwritten letters + stay in better touch with friends. I’ve got to preface this with saying that I’m already pretty good at keeping in touch with friends (in my humble opinion), but there’s always room for improvement, and more than anything, I just don’t want to let this aspect of my life slip through the cracks. The friendships I’ve made {and continue to make} are incredibly important to me and so dedicating time to this resolution is worth every second.

I’m doing pretty okay with the handwritten letter part, so I thought I’d take some time to talk about how I’m making it work for me. I wrote some Happy New Year notes in January and sent some Valentine’s postcards when February 14th rolled around. I think that’s the way I’m going to keep making this happen around here. A few cards mailed out to friends once a month should do the trick. It’s totally doable, and makes me feel really good inside. Not to mention EVERYONE and their mother loves getting mail.

{Amiright?!}

To start this little project first I collected addresses using Postable. I found out about this website from my friend Elizabeth, who is also trying her hand at this pen pal gig. It’s a SUPER easy way to get your friends’ addresses AND keep them in one place. The whole “address book” thing never really worked out for me. Mostly I’d forget where I put it, but also I was terrible at keeping up with it. With this, I always know where my friends’ addresses are, I can print mailing labels if I want, and they are easily updatable if someone moves (which happens A LOT these days).

In January and February I sent cards that I purchased at my local Paper Source, but this month, I’ve started to collect more cards from favorite etsy shops. ONE because there are some seriously great handmade shops out there and TWO because, as you know, I recently became a shop owner myself {shameless plug!}.

Here are some favorites I love:

Wit & Whistle

Beyond Wonderland

Sara December Rose

Little Low Studio

Iron Curtain Press

On top of the letters, I’d love to start sending out little gifts here and there, just because. A few friends have recently done this for me and it’s just the NICEST. I already have my first batch of “gifts” heading out this week. Excited to start giving! For this I am aiming to send out local products (chocolates and other goodies), but might look into some etsy shops for that kind of thing as well.

Lastly, I just really want to make a big effort to visit friends this year/or have friends come visit me. I’ve accepted that I’m pretty much the WORST at keeping up with friends via telephone, and email works okay every now and again, but it’s just not the same as face-to-face, let’s-hug-and-dance-like-we’ve-never-left-each-other feeling. You know? I’ve been pretty successful at seeing my Boston friends consistently, which I LOVE, but I’d also love to figure some way out to see my college/high school friends that don’t live close, too. It’s hard, because many of them live pretty far {at least a plane ride away}, and money is tight over here, but hopefully we can work something out, or even try to meet somewhere in the middle. There are always weddings {we have two this summer!}, but still I want MORE.

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And so, there we have it. Basically, “The Friendship Plan for 2013”. Sounds official and I like it.

Also, now I’m curious. Do you write letters? Make phone calls? Plan weekends? How do you keep in touch with your favorites as the years go by??

{P.S. Are you still on Facebook? I am {sort of}, but I am over it. Big time. I could go on forever about THAT, but another day, another time!}

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“Write More Letters”
letterpress print by Bison Bookbinding Press
{found at Porter Square Books!}

five things on a sunday in march.

So.

5 THINGS.

Rachael said she doesn’t usually do these things, and then she did (and I am glad). I’m here to say that I definitely do these things, so let’s get started already. These things are fun and fun is good.

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one :: The nickname “Nanner” came about my junior year in college. I would always always always forget things as I was leaving my dorm and my crazy/silly neighbor (now a best friend) kept telling me I reminded her of her “Nan” (her grandmother). It stuck on pretty quick with the rest of my friends and I’ve never looked back since.

two :: Speaking of college, I had a really great group of girlfriends throughout my years at school. Senior year we all lived in a big brick house on the edge of a busy road in town. I will never forget the parties we had in that house. And the singing and dancing into the night. Crazy good, fun times. The best. I’m also still close with my high school girlfriends. They are some of the best people I know and I feel incredibly thankful to call them mine. I get really bummed out from time to time that we can’t see each other more often, but when we do see each other everything’s exactly the same as it always was and I always feel like the luckiest.

three :: Speaking of high school, my dad owned an old Cabriolet that looked just like this one during the year I was learning to drive. It was kind of old and run-down, but I really loved it. I still remember the way it smelled and the feeling of driving to the lake in the summer sun with top down and the music blaring. I get serious nostalgia when I think of that car and would give anything to go back in time to that summer, if only for a moment. SIGH.

four :: What else. My biggest pet peeve is when people drive too close behind me. I am not a slow driver, and so when this happens I often feel like the person behind me is just an impatient speed demon that obviously never learned driving etiquette. I instantly go on super defense mode and drive unreasonably and annoyingly slow just to piss the person tailgaiting off. I also get really mad and usually start shouting profanity into the rearview mirror as if the driver can hear me (to which the other person is more than likely shouting and cursing back at me). Not my finest moments, but I’m okay with it. And a disclaimer if you should ever find yourself in a car behind me: STAY BACK. Just stay back.

five :: I am a pretty serious perfectionist. Sometimes this gets in the way of life, but most of the time it’s just ingrained into who I am and I kind of love it. If I am doing something I am interested and passionate about (which I’d say is the case for 90% of the aspects of my life) then I will go above and beyond what would probably be perfectly acceptable and appreciated. This goes for blogging and instagramming and my etsy shop, and definitely teaching, and also party throwing. This does not effect keeping up with the laundry and emptying the dishwasher (unless I am having people over).

On the other hand, I am incredibly laid back and easy going (aside from the tailgaiting shenanigans, mind you). I take things as they come, try to see the bright side when things don’t work out, and generally live by the principals of “don’t sweat the small stuff” and “life is what you make it”, but also very much “everything happens for a reason.” I’m down with feeling all the feelings (goodness knows I love a good cry), but mostly I try to appreciate and enjoy life, because I see it as a gift and I’m not about to waste it.

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And that’s that. It’s kind of hard to think of 5 random {hopefully new-to-you} things. But also fun, too.

The best is reading other people’s so here is where I will tag some of you:

Jenna + Eliza + Colleen + Melanie + Casey + Melissa

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{P.S. My necklace is from Anthropologie and I am in LOVE.}

Happy Sunday, all!

a wish for spring

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{art print + pretty pastels + coffee + shoes + mint necklace + ferris wheel + stripes + clutch}

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Bright is good, right? Especially on the rainiest + coldest of days. I’d like to ask what happened to the sun? It was here and now it’s gone. Yes, it definitely came out for a little while, which counts in my book, but it slipped away before I got too satisfied. On top of that, they say there’s a storm coming in.

NO. I want to shout. Enough, winter. Get going on your way, already. I am over you.

Lately I’ve been feeling that itch for spring. It’s a good itch, one that prickles at each part of your body and gets your senses going– revving up, starting fresh, starting new.

I know it’s not quite here yet, but I’ve got the itch.

I’m listening to new music, making plans for the months ahead— getting exited for daylight savings, dreaming of switching out my clothes, and lusting after bike rides through the breeze. My mind is racing with possibility. I want to travel and visit friends, I want to explore the city + my little town, I want to walk with Zan in the evening as the sun dips low in the sky. This time of year always swells up my heart.

I am so ready.

I know it’s not quite here yet, but I’ve got the itch.

I can feel it coming from somewhere.

More every day. Every minute. Every second.

I can feel it coming.

… Can’t you?